Bruges - Meeting Up with Some Old Family Friends

Monday, August 27, 2018
Bruges, Flanders, Belgium
It’s always fun to travel with someone else or at least meet up with friends, even if they’re friends you’ve never met before.  Or met only once in your life so long ago you hardly remember. It’s a long story, but I do know a few people in Belgium, mostly the descendants of my mom’s friends.  Ann Vandenbrouke and several of her relatives have been Facebook friends of mine for a few years now, so when she saw I was planning a trip to Belgium she suggested meeting up. A day in together in Bruges worked out for us.
Her family connection is that her grandfather (Arthur) and my aunt (Martha) through marriage were siblings.  My mom stayed pretty close with Aunt Martha’s relatives and considered them family even though there was no blood relationship. Ann’s mother and father visited us once in the U.S. when I was about 4 or 5, and we also saw them in Belgium in 1985.  I was 18 then and I think Ann was about 8 or 9.  Ann’s Uncle (Constant) took us all for a walk around town (Harelbeke) and Ann had a hard time making it over one of the ditches on our route.
Ann is now very grown up, teaches at a university, married to Jeroen, and with two boys aged 14 and 12 who all joined me for a day in Bruges. They told me they had actually never been to Bruges together as a family before, although each had individually on school friend trips or work-related events. Our first order of business after meeting was heading to the Belfry at its opening time to beat the crowds. Even at 9:30 A.M. climbing 366 stairs is an ordeal on a hot day but worth it for the views in the sunshine.  Our next adventure was a boat ride on the canals, quite fun but in my opinion not the best vantage point for seeing the sites because of the low vantage point. At least the movement and proximity to the water cooled things down for half an hour or so.  One interesting aspect is that Bruges canals are only open to boats run by the five tour companies that operate there; no house boats or private craft permitted as they are in Amsterdam or elsewhere in Netherlands.
The family wanted to go to lunch at De Halve Maan Brewery and then for a brewery tour. De Halve Maan (Half Moon) is one of two breweries in the city and is known for several versions of Brugse Zot (Bruges Madman) and Strafe Henrik (Strong Henry) beer lines, all pretty strong stuff but up to 11% alcohol on the Strafe Henrik quadrupel.  I’ve been on several brewery tours before but this one was unique; they have you climbing up and down staircases so steep they’re practically ladders and into rooms so hot the 95* outdoor air felt refreshing. I can see how the tour is so highly recommended in the guidebooks, and it’s not just for the included beer at the end of the tour.
After a big lunch, which for me was a platter of five Flemish cheeses that I had to eat quickly before they became spreads, a long afternoon walk was in order. We went to the Saint Anna quarter in the eastern part of the old city, a quiet neighborhood of old houses, big churches, several windmills and old city gates, and a few museums dedicated to specific subject matter like Flemish ethnology, lace making, and the Flemish writer Guido Gezelle.  After all that walking in the heat it was time for a another beer break….and then some ice cream for dinner.
I noticed there was a concert that evening on the Burg Square in front of the Stadhuis. Ann and Jeroen were familiar with the band and wanted to stay to see him.  Het Zesde Metaal (The Sixth Metal) is what’s known in Flemish as kleine konst (small art), a genre that uses regional dialects and local subject matter as opposed to an art of more universal appeal that most musicians aim for.  
The band was preceded by a West Flemish rapper named Brihang whose poetic lyrics I found to be quite bad. At least that’s true of what I could understand of them.  That I couldn’t understand too much of either Het Zesde Metaal or Brihang is more of a reflection of not being able to understand lyrics in live music than the language; much of the time I can’t understand it when they’re singing in English either.
I should explain the significance of West Flemish, the dialect of West Flanders province. The dialect is the version of the language I grew up with and is considered almost a separate language from Dutch/Flemish by some linguists because it uses somewhat different grammatical rules, different pronunciation, and many different words than dialects from other parts of Belgium or Netherlands, so much so that television news in Belgium sometimes provides subtitles when people interviewed are speaking in the West Flemish dialect. But it’s the one I understand best.
We decided to call it a night around 11:00 while the show was still on but the flashes of lightning in the sky were starting to look a bit more ominous.  I made it back to my hostel in the nick of time before the heavens opened up, breaking the month-long rainless period in the area, but Ann, Jeroen, and the boys got drenched in the last few minutes of dash to their car.  Overall it was a great day!
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